At Grey Bruce Hospice, we believe that conversations about future care are among the most meaningful ones we can have—yet they are often the hardest to begin. Advance Care Planning is not just about medical decisions; it is about ensuring your voice is heard, your values are respected, and your loved ones are supported when it matters most.
What is Advance Care Planning?
Advance Care Planning is a process of reflection and communication. It invites you to think about your values, beliefs, and wishes for future health and personal care, and to share those wishes with the people who may need to speak on your behalf.
It includes:
- Thinking about what matters most to you in life and care
- Choosing a Substitute Decision Maker (SDM)—someone you trust to make decisions if you cannot
- Talking openly with your SDM, family, and care providers
- Considering legal tools such as a Power of Attorney for Personal Care
This process is not just for those who are ill or aging. Regardless of age or health, none of us are exempt from uncertainty. Advance Care Planning ensures you remain in control, even in situations where you cannot communicate your wishes yourself.
Why is Advance Care Planning Important?
Through our collective experience supporting individuals and families, including at Chapman House, we have seen firsthand how planning ahead can ease emotional burden during some of life’s most difficult moments.
When families have had conversations about end-of-life wishes:
- Anxiety and stress are often significantly reduced
- Decision-making becomes clearer and more confident
- Loved ones feel reassured they are honoring the person’s wishes
Without these conversations, families may be left guessing—often during urgent or crisis situations. There is rarely a “perfect” time to talk about death or dying, but delaying these discussions can make them more difficult when time is limited.
Two simple questions can help start the conversation:
- Who would speak for you if you couldn’t speak for yourself?
- Does that person truly understand your wishes?
If the answer is uncertain, now is the time to begin.
A Collective Perspective from Hospice Care
As a team, we have the privilege of walking alongside individuals and families at vulnerable times. We are often the first point of contact when someone is considering hospice care, and we witness a wide range of emotions—from urgency and fear to preparedness and peace.
One consistent truth stands out: families who have engaged in Advance Care Planning tend to experience less distress. These conversations, while difficult, provide clarity and comfort.
We also recognize the courage it takes to talk about these topics. Being open and willing to listen when a loved one shares their wishes is an act of deep respect and compassion.
In over a decade of hospice experience, we can say with confidence: we have never met a family who regretted having a plan in place.
Start the Conversation Today
Advance Care Planning is ultimately a gift—to yourself and to those who care about you. It ensures your wishes are known and respected, and it provides your loved ones with guidance and reassurance when they need it most.
There may never be a “right” time, but there is always value in starting now because if not you, who? And if not now, when?
Advanced Care Planning Day
April 16th
Advance Care Planning Day is approaches annually on April 16th, and the message—“If not you, who?”—reminds us of the importance of making our healthcare wishes known.
Advance Care Planning (ACP) helps ensure that your values, preferences, and decisions are understood and respected, even if you are unable to speak for yourself. Taking the time to plan ahead can provide clarity and peace of mind for both you and your loved ones.
To support our community, free ACP kits are available at Chapman House for those who would like to pick one up in person. These kits are designed to guide you through important conversations and decisions in a simple, approachable way.
If you’re unable to visit us in person, you can still get started—simply click the link below to download your free ACP kit and begin planning at your own pace.
Because when it comes to your future care, the question remains: If not you, who?
Advanced Care Planning Workbook
We would like to encourage and assist you with starting a conversation with your loved ones about Advanced Care Planning.
To request your free copy of the Ontario Advanced Care Planning Workbook complete the following for or call 519-370-7239.
For more information and resources on Advanced Care Planning within Ontario, please refer to the Advanced Care Planning Ontario website.
